Holy Matrimony
Sacred Scripture begins with the creation and union of man and woman and ends with “the wedding feast of the Lamb” (Rev 19:7, 9). Scripture often refers to marriage, its origin and purpose, the meaning God gave to it, and its renewal in the covenant made by Jesus with his Church. By their marriage, the couple witnesses Christ’s spousal love for the Church. One of the Nuptial Blessings in the liturgical celebration of marriage refers to this in saying, “Father, you have made the union of man and wife so holy a mystery that it symbolizes the marriage of Christ and his Church.” The Sacrament of Marriage is a covenant, which is more than a contract. Covenant always expresses a relationship between persons. The marriage covenant refers to the relationship between the husband and wife, a permanent union of persons capable of knowing and loving each other and God. The celebration of marriage is also a liturgical act, appropriately held in a public liturgy at church. Catholics are urged to celebrate their marriage within the Eucharistic Liturgy.
Marriage
Catholics must be married abiding by the rules of the Church in order to be recognized as a valid matrimony. Catholics may marry persons of any religion (or none), and non-Catholic spouses are not required to convert. However, they must not interfere with the Catholic faith of the family and must agree to raise the children in the Church.
Preparation
It is recommended that marriage candidates contact the parish office and meet with the pastor at least six months in advance. Weddings at St. Thomas are typically held on Saturdays at 10AM, 12PM, or 2PM. It is also ideal for the couple to reserve a reception location after meeting with the priest for scheduling purposes.